Boo? Halloween Used to Be About Finding True Love

Boo? Halloween Used to Be About Finding True Love


Halloween wasn’t always so scary. It was once less about fright and more about flirtation.

A century ago, the rituals surrounding the celebration at the end of October emphasized love. Newspapers recommended parlor games that promised to reveal romantic fortune. Even the cast of characters was more oriented toward matters of the heart.

“Halloween in the early 20th century had far less emphasis on blood, gore and scary monsters, and much more emphasis on courtship, romance and the opportunity for love,” Daniel Gifford, the former manager of museum advisory committees for the Smithsonian National Museum of American History explained in a museum blog post last year.

“In fact, the image of Cupid was often interspersed among the more familiar black cats, witches and jack-o’-lanterns.”

Halloween games and traditions reflected that attention to themes of love, with many offering a peek at what the future holds. For women in a restrictive society, they offered a semblance of control.

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“Given the importance of finding a desirable marriageable man in an era when prim, proper, ladylike behavior was the norm, young women often reveled in chances to participate in well-established and -regarded traditions that might guide them to the spouses of their dreams,” Diane Arkins, the author of the book “Halloween: Romantic Art and Customs of Yesteryear,” from Pelican Publishing, said in an email.

Here’s a look at some of those largely forgotten customs.

Snap Apple and Other Games of Love

Apples played a starring role in many of Halloween’s romantic traditions.

One game, Snap Apple, challenged participants to use only their teeth to bite an apple suspended from the ceiling by a string or ribbon, Ms. Arkins writes in her book.

The first to succeed would be the first to marry. (In a more dangerous version of the game, the apple is speared by a stick with a lit candle on the opposite end.)

In its heyday, the game was so popular that Halloween was sometimes called Snap Apple Night, according to various reports. But modern Americans may be more familiar with another, similar activity: bobbing for apples.


This Nov. 1, 1919, postcard shows a woman playing Snap Apple, a once-popular Halloween game.CreditPelican Publishing 

According to tradition, a successful first attempt at that game — retrieving an apple with one’s mouth from a container filled with water — foretold true love reciprocated, Ms. Arkins writes. Repeated failure suggested that a less-than-ideal match awaited, or perhaps it was a warning to move on.

Other traditions were simpler. One old custom called for cutting a long strip of apple skin and tossing it over one’s shoulder. The landed peel was said to resemble the first initial of a suitor.

Another tradition involved eating an apple in front of a mirror to conjure the image of one’s soul mate, just in time for him or her to ask for the last bite.

The seeds within offered insight, too, with poems serving as guides to what they predicted. Here is one such poem, reproduced by Ms. Arkins and published in the “Kiddies’ Hallowe’en Book” in 1931:

One seed shows you’ll get a letter,

Two a dish you’re going to break.

Three seeds, you’ll hear some good news,

Four, a ride you soon will take.

Five, you will be disappointed,

Six, you’re going to meet a friend.

Seven brings you a surprise,

Eight, some money you will spend.

Nine shows there’s pleasure coming,

Ten, you’ll have something to wear.

Eleven, you will take a trip,

Twelve, some good luck you will share.

Thirteen seeds, you’ll have a fright,

Fourteen, your future days are bright.


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